### Problem
>In a house for a small family, it is the relationship between children and adults which is most critical.

### Solution
>Give the house three distinct parts: a realm for parents, a realm for the children, and a common area. Conceive these three realms as roughly similar in size, with the commons the largest.

### Related Patterns
... according to [[The Family (75)]], each nuclear family ought to be a member household of a larger group household. If this is not possible, do what you can, when building a house for a small family, to generate some larger, possible group household, by tying it together with the next door households; in any case, at the very least, form the beginning of a [[House Cluster (37)]]. 

Treat the house, like every house, as a distinct piece of territory - [[Your Own Home (79)]]; build the three main parts according to the specific patterns for those parts - [[Common Areas at the Heart (129)]], [[Couple's Realm (136)]], [[Bed Cluster (143)]] and connect the common areas, and the bed cluster according to the [[Children's Realm (137)]] ...

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> [!cite]- Alexander, Christopher. _A Pattern Language: Towns, Buildings, Construction_. Oxford University Press, 1977, p. 381.
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